Six weeks ago...

...we went to my friends birthday party. I forgot all about these pictures, but I love them.

And him.

Happy Thursday, and yay for the weekend almost being here.

A letter on change

Dear Eden and Micah,

I wrote on my post on Mother's Day about how life is different. Your memories from these early years may be few and far between but I want you to know how it's different. I want you to know how my heart is changed after all we've been through in the past year.

When I was in college for journalism, my professors always used to say, "show, don't tell", and that's what I want to show you. Change.

 A tiny bit over a month ago, Daddy's friend Reza came to visit and stay with us for a very short time. It was hands down one of the highlights of our year. We got to stay up late, chat, and had some laughs over silly things. But see, I think a year ago, I wouldn't have loved the opportunity. I think that I may have been too caught up in myself, my goals, my agenda. None of those things matter, our life is about loving God and loving people. And this was such a beautiful chance that we got to have Reza.

 We went to Madison for a little visit and packed lunches. We did most of what we planned, the farmers market, State Street, the gardens that I can't remember the name of... But I think the most rewarding part was handing out all the food that we brought for our lunch to the homeless. Eden, you were a little timid, and that's okay, I know what you're feeling. But the blessing from giving them food and them just smiling or saying "thank you" is phenomenal and out of this world.

 Another thing that's changed lately is grace. My grace, between you both. I find myself relying on God for patience when either of you test me and your response is incredible. When one of you wrongs the other, I've been having you apologize to the other and then say something kind. When all of that is said and done, you're usually both hugging and telling each other how much you love each other. It doesn't always play out like that, but a lot of times it does, and my heart just swells with joy.

 I think as a family, our goal in life is different. It's about people, loving people. That's really hard for me sometimes, as I don't consider myself a people person. I like to be alone, and think, and get things crossed off my list. But that list doesn't matter, people do.

 This is a silly picture but it's the only one I have to remember the day. I signed up at our church to be a guide for the Touched Twice clinic. It's a service to people in the community to give them medical, dental, and social help and if they want, spiritual help as well. So, I signed up to be a guide, me, a not-what-I-would-consider-people-person. And I got a family, with kids. I will never forget those kids as long as I live. It wasn't the most fun day of my life, and I had anxiety before it all began, I was so scared. But I helped someone, and though it wasn't like it was handing the food out to the homeless people, I knew I was being a help. See, I don't think that every time we serve we should expect our hearts to be filled, I don't think it's like that. Sometimes serving isn't pretty, but that's the whole idea.
It's humbling, and so healthy to put ourselves aside for a change and focus on others.

 Eden and Micah, I want me and daddy to be an example for you. I don't care if our lives are glamorous and glitzy, I'd take humble and serving any day over that. I'm so thankful for where God has grown us in this area, and it's the prayer of my heart that God will lead you the same way.
Love you more than life,
Mommy

A little catch up and some shots of Mike dancing

In the past, almost month, of not blogging, and working on a rummage sale what-seemed-to-be-nonstop, we did have a normal social life. 

We met up with some old friends, that I'm just now calculating, we've known each other for twenty five years. I can't say that of many people.

We played outside a ton. It seems like we're making a transition from inside to outside.

Where the nights are usually spent picking up the house, I now shrugg, and decide it's laundry that has to be done, we're not in the house much anyways.

Eden also started piano, a little over a month ago. She loves it, and it's definitely a test of my patience.  I need to sit and work with her every time she practices. It doesn't sound like much, but to me, it is.

Micah loves the piano and has said that he would like to start too:)

I feel like we've had a lot of people over in the past month. I love the time visiting and it keeps me from having my house look like hoardsville. We haven't had anyone over in a week and a half and the kids are asking every day, "who's coming over today?" I think they love it too.

And one last visual to put a smile on your face.

This guy.

Love him.

So. Much.

a short and sweet little catch up.

ciao.

Mother's Day

It's been sooo long since I've blogged.

Every little bit of time I've had lately has been sucked up by our basement and consequently a rummage sale. So. Much. Work.

To say that I'm relieved it's over would be the biggest understatement of the year.

Spending my days in the garage when only a few feet away, the sunshine is gleaming on the driveway. Not my idea of fun.

But it's over.

And we've got a lot less stuff.

And the money is going to a good cause.

It's a win win baby.

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Part of me wondered what my emotions would be like this Mother's Day.

Wondering if I'd be sad, not having a little baby to hold, and wondering

if grief would rear it's ugly head again.

But, I'm not.

Last week, what-would-have-been-our-due-date came and went.

I forgot.

And I'm so thankful.

 I have two beautiful children that God has given me.

Two amazing little people that fill my time,

and two crazy beautiful souls who shock me sometimes because of their love.

 When we went through our miscarriage last fall, I used to write down my 

prayers daily. Over and over and over again, I asked God to change

me, to change my family. To impact our lives, to truly make a difference,

so that we could all look back and say "it is well with my soul."

God has answered that prayer.

Truly.

And "it is well with my soul."

My heart is forever changed, in so many ways, because of being a mother.

Thank you Jesus.