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Even in something so small

 Last weekend, we took a little trip up to see my parents. I don't think there is anywhere in the world as relaxing as their house. I always tell Mike that I feel like I even breathe different when we're there.
Being there always gives Mike and I the opportunity to steal away a little time alone.
And every time it's possible, we kayak down the Crystal River.

Mike had to prod me a few more times this past weekend than normal. The air was chilly and the thought of getting wet wasn't super exciting. But the minute we were on the river, I turned and told him that I love this, this time alone, this adventure together.

The river was probably the highest I'd ever seen it, due to all the rain we've had lately. And that made for a little more exciting ride. There were a few new trees down across the river as well, and one in particular caught me by surprise. I couldn't quite make the turn quick enough around the tree, and I abhor going under low brush that's hanging from above. I always imagine I'll be covered in spiders and who knows what else. To avoid going under all the icky stuff, I clung to the tree stump and in seconds Mike t-boned my kayak. Wanting to have a little fun myself, I flung his end of his kayak toward the under brush and just as I anticipated, he flipped.

I laughed for a few seconds just because Mike tipping always makes it seem so adventurous to me. His face when he came up though, quickly changed the pace of moment. He was distraught, I could tell before he even said anything, and he quickly blurted out that he lost his wedding ring. I still was clinging to the tree, feeling bad, it was my fault after all. Knowing the quick current of the river and the depth, I knew it would be impossible to find. I tried to make a few jokes, and even reminded him of our brother in law and how many rings he'd been through. It didn't help the situation, he was distraught.

I did help him look, after I unperched myself from hugging the tree stump. It was almost impossible to see the bottom, my body was freezing from the temp of the water, and my ankle was hurting from walking against the current. I told Mike that I thought we should be done, we'd looked for over twenty minutes. He agreed, and then I prayed, "God, if you want us to find it, make it happen now." I kid you not that I looked down and saw the ring. I quickly said to Mike how cool it would be if we did find it, but I was so scared if I missed it when I went down for it, the current would take it away. I reached and missed. I waited, for the water to clear and for myself to be calm. I reached again, and I got it!

Mike picked me up and I think he was the happiest man in the world. I quickly told him how I prayed, and God answered. It's so small in the scheme of our lives, but such a reminder to me. He cares. So much. It reminds me of Matthew 10:29 "Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father's care."
Even in something so small, He cares, He's there.

Six weeks ago...

...we went to my friends birthday party. I forgot all about these pictures, but I love them.
And him.
Happy Thursday, and yay for the weekend almost being here.


Happy happy, joy joy

So.
I was looking through my pictures a few nights ago and I kept seeing a theme.
Simple things, huge smiles.
I'm so thankful for happy (most of the time) kids.

Lately, they love playing together.
I love that too.
Even when they fight and I make them play in separate rooms, they don't last two minutes.
The little slapping matches are annoying at times, but it always works out.
Today I even heard Eden trying to teach Micah a Bible verse after he took something from her.
I was upstairs getting ready, and they both were down.
It was a minute that I smiled, from the inside out.

I've been a lot happier lately too.
I've been spending a lot of time reading the Bible.
Acts.
It talks about how Christians are supposed to act, maybe that's why it's called Acts.
I've also been reading a marriage book.
Simple things, basic things, things that bring me joy.

I am so cynical sometimes when it comes to Christian books, but this one is great. Cheesy at times, but addressing some things that I've never even realized that I do. For example, not telling Mike things first. Even little silly things, I usually tell someone on the phone and this writer talks about how it takes some of the pizazz out of it. No story is ever as good the second time around.
And view your spouse as perfect. This one is hard, duh, because it means you overlook the negative. 
Marriage is such a gift, and if we let it, such a blessing, and a million other nouns and adjectives too.
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Often at the end of the day I think of my favorite moment.
This may be sappy, but it's the extra long kisses from Mike that are often my favorite.
Even more than this:

Could she be any cuter?
She quit napping.
I knew it was coming.
She still has a quiet time where she reads books or does whatever in her room.
Today, that expanded to the bathroom.
Yeah.
She came downstairs, saw me around the corner and tried to run back up the stairs.
I caught her with my words "Eden, come snuggle", because she can never resist.
She came to me and laid in my lap.
I looked at her glistening face, yeah, glistening with my makeup. 

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After Eden's fun quiet time, we painted our toes and let them dry in the sun.
Beautiful day, beautiful day.

us




What I say, what he hears

I say: Did you hear that the measles is going around?
He hears: Whose husband is walking around in a speedo?

I say: Do you think he's wearing a toupee?
He hears: How much do you think he had to pay?

XOXOXX Love you Michael